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Alexandrite & Blue Topaz with Diamonds Accents

The Elara

Name: The Elara | Alexandrite and London Blue Topaz Toi et Moi, Two Stone Engagement Ring with Diamond Accents
Brand: Rustic and Main
Price: 4670.0 USD
Availability: InStock

Alexandrite and London Blue Topaz Toi et Moi, Two Stone Engagement Ring with Diamond Accents

Ring can be set with:

Pear

Price includes: Price includes setting with a Lab-Grown Alexandrite, Natural Blue Topaz & Lab-Grown Diamond Accents

$ 5,070.00 from / customizable

About This Ring

The Elara, Toi et Moi style, engagement ring is all about contrast and connection—two distinct stones coming together in perfect harmony. The deep, sophisticated emerald-cut London Blue Topaz pairs beautifully with the enchanting pear-cut lab-grown Alexandrite, which shifts from green to purplish-red depending on the light. Like two souls with their own unique beauty, these stones complement each other effortlessly, creating a ring that’s as bold and captivating as your love story.

Available in:

Ring Setting: 10k, 14k or 18k Yellow, White or Rose Gold, and Platinum

Customization: For more extensive customizations, such as stone swaps, please fill out our custom engagement ring form and provide details of the ring you’re interested in customizing along with your design idea. Our jewelry design experts will help bring your custom vision to life.

Ring Size

Engagement rings are easy to resize after the moment. Get a free ring sizer.

Date Needed By

Occasion

Made to order — ships within 6 weeks.

Ships Within6 weeks

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HandmadeIn the USA

30-DayReturns

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Engagement Ring Details

Ring can be set with:

Pear

Setting Details

Shoulder Width: 2.03
Shank Base Width: 2.03
Shank Base Thickness: 1.8
Ring Fit: Standard
Primary Stone Shape: Pear
Top Dimensions: 11.19 mm
Primary Stone Count: 2
Stone Size: 9 x 6 mm
Setting Style: Prong
Prong Count: 3
Hidden Halo: No
Accent Stones: Yes

Stone Details

Primary Stone

Type: Lab-Grown Alexandrite (Eye-Clean)
Shape/Cut: Pear, Faceted
Size: 9 x 6 mm
Color: Color Change – Green, Purple, Red

Primary Stone

Type: Natural Topaz (AA)
Shape/Cut: Emerald, Step-cut
Size: 10 x 8 mm
Color: London Blue

Round Lab-Grown Diamond Accents

Count: 8
Shape/Cut: Round, Full-Cut
Color/Clarity: F+, VS
Approx.Total Carat Weight: 0.24 Ct

Ring Sizing Info

We will ship you a Free Ring Sizing Kit 1-2 business days after you place an order when you select "Send Ring Sizer"

Your custom sizer(s) will arrive with instructions on how to use the sizer and how to update your ring size and width for your order when you’ve determined the best fit.

We will not start making your ring until your ring size has been added to your order.

Shipping & Returns

Your ring will ship for free UPS 2-Day or according to the shipping method you select at checkout. Rings ship in discreet outer packaging with a lovely box and unboxing experience.

Certificates of authenticity are included for most stones.

RETURNS

Engagement rings can be returned or exchanged within 30 days of receipt, provided they are in original, unworn condition. Some exceptions apply. Read our full return policy here.

The Story Behind This Ring

Alexandrite & London Blue Topaz, Toi et Moi

Toi et Moi — "you and me." A ring style born in the 18th century and made famous when Napoleon gave one to Joséphine: two stones, side by side, each beautiful on its own and extraordinary together.

The Elara brings this romantic tradition to life with an emerald-cut London Blue Topaz — deep, sophisticated, unwavering — alongside a pear-cut lab-grown alexandrite that shifts from green to purplish-red depending on the light. Two stones as distinct and complementary as two people in love, promising to shine in each other's presence for a lifetime.

Toi et Moi, two distinct stones in perfect harmony, just like you two.

Make It Yours

Love this ring? Let’s make it perfect.

This design is a starting point. Swap the stone, change the metal, adjust the proportions — our designers work with you directly to create the ring she’ll never want to take off.

Different Stone

Moissanite, Sapphire, Morganite, Diamond, or your own — any shape, any size.

Setting Changes

Add a halo, change the prong count, modify the band profile or shank width.

Start from Scratch

Bring a photo, a sketch, or just a feeling. We’ll design something entirely new.

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This is our second ring from Rustic and Main (my husband lost the first) and I don’t think anyone could have made a more perfect ring for my husband. Not only is it beautiful, but it has character and is made from unique materials which got him so excited when I explained each part to him and gave him the certificate of authenticity.

— Anessa P.

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